Q: Can I file for divorce in California if my spouse lives in another country?

A: Yes, as long as you meet the California residency requirement. International service must follow either the Hague Convention or the local country's laws.

Q: What if my spouse refuses to accept service?

A: You can use a process server or sheriff to complete personal service. If they still refuse, you can file a proof of attempted service and ask the court to proceed.

Q: Can I serve divorce papers by email or text?

A: No. California does not allow service of initial divorce documents by email or text. Only alternative service methods approved by the court are valid.

Q: Will delays in service affect my case timeline?

A: Yes. Courts expect timely service (within 60 days), and failure to comply can result in case dismissal or require you to refile.

Q: Can I get spousal support or custody if my spouse doesn’t respond?

A: Yes, but only if you request these orders when filing and follow correct default procedures. The court must still find your request fair and lawful.