Divorce can affect many aspects of a person’s life. Getting a divorce not only means separating from your spouse, but separating from a life that included your spouse. You may have had mutual married couple friends who you would frequently do double dates with. Those mutual friends may have been whom you went to for advice on marriage and to rant about your annoying spouse.
However, after divorce, those married couples aren’t going to be around. While they talk about their lives together, you no longer feel comfortable being a part of the conversation.
Sulking by yourself that you have not only lost your partner but also friends and hobbies that you shared with your husband will not help you recover from the divorce. Humans need to feel belonged and need social bonding. Creating new relationships with new people you find commonalities with is essential post-divorce. People who resist making new friends usually jump into new relationships too soon without taking into mind that they had just got out of a relationship. If you feel lonely and are not able to adjust to all the changes in your life post-divorce, look for a friend.
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