Before a couple comes to the decision of getting a divorce, many attempts to save the marriage are made. Some couples get therapy, some find activities to do together, and some find activities to do alone. The last option seems to be the most common one to couples who simply seem to fight all the time when they are together.
However, when taking breaks from marriage, there are several things to keep in mind to make the effects of these breaks positive. First, the breaks have to be made by both partners to keep the idea mutual and neutral. It seems men give themselves breaks more readily than women. Women seem to have a harder time getting away from home because concerns of their children and effects of their absence are always on their mind. If only one partner is able to take breaks from marriages, this solution to making the marriage work isn’t going to be effective.
Marriage isn’t easy and good marriage takes work, so finding things to do together is possibly better than giving each other time to “escape” from the marriage.
Divorce should always be your last option. Couples should always make attempts to salvage their marriage. Seeking help from a family law divorce lawyer is recommended only after all other avenues have been exhausted. If you are seeking divorce representation our Santa Ana family law & divorce firm can assist you. We are competent smart family law attorneys whom practice in all areas of family law. Located in Tustin, across the street from Tustin City Hall and Tustin Police Department. With our well known family law firm you can rest assured your legal needs will be protected.