Father’s Going for Custody

Posted on May 16, 2012 by Law

The type of Father that fights for custody is the one that still wants to maintain the same relationship they have with their kids.  This type of Father is the opposite of a “dead-beat-dad”.  People are so use to the Mother of the child to be in full custody of the kids but times are changing.  Women have been working their way up the working ladder, and they have gotten to the point now where they become the sole provider in the house, which means that dad is at home with the kids. Because of the changing times more men are fighting for custody of their children and they are getting, if not full then joint. If you are a Father and you want custody of your children, do not be afraid to fight for them.  They direction that society is heading is a more equal one.

For further information regarding custody and more please contact the Custody Lawyers for Orange County at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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How Do I Find A Divorce Attorney?

Posted on May 15, 2012 by Law

If you or someone you know is contemplating divorce it is important to research attorneys first. You want to go into the divorce process as knowledgeable as possible. Often times it is most beneficial to speak to someone you know who may have already gone through the process.

Divorce attorneys will vary in price so it is important to interview several before making a decision.  Most attorneys offer free consultations so they can explain to you what their services are and how much these services will cost.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Southern California Divorce Attorney at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Socializing Post-Divorce

Posted on May 14, 2012 by Law

The period after a divorce can be turbulent, especially for a person’s emotional and social life. Here are a few ways to rebuild your social life after divorce.

1. Reflect on your current friends first. After such a traumatic emotional experience, it’s important to take stock of your true friends, the ones who have been with you through and through.

2. Consider the people you have lost touch with recently. it’s important to remember that a divorce doesn’t always have to pull friends away. many people are understanding if you would like to continue to socialize with them post divorce.

3. Search for friends in new environments. Life is one continual experience of meeting new people so take advantage of that and find some new friends to add to your social life.

4. Find a divorce support group. Theres a surprising amount of these groups around now a days and they are perfectly designed to meet the needs of the newly divorced. Consider participating in a meeting to see how you like it.

5. Volunteer to help others. A great way to be involved in the community around you is to volunteer at local charities such as homeless shelters and library help.

6. Don’t just mope around after a divorce. It’s important to move on and regain some sense of emotional peace and stability especially post-divorce.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Tustin Divorce Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Omitted Assets

Posted on May 13, 2012 by Law

Omitted assets are assets that are kept out of the divorce sometimes done unintentionally but mostly done intentionally.  While going through a divorce you and your spouse are to put forward all of your assets.  People may try to omit their assets but that would not be wise.  If that is done then the court can make it so that that asset that you are hiding will be split down the middle, when you could have just had your asset to yourself.  In extreme cases the court can actually give 100% of the assets that you were hiding to your spouse.  Your best bet is to put all of your assets forward in the beginning to avoid losing things you don’t want to.

For further information regarding omitted Assets in Divorces please contact the Tustin Divorce Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Paternity

Posted on May 12, 2012 by Law

You would think that a paternity test is pretty straightforward, you either are or are not the father, but there are different classifications of paternity when it comes to determining child support.  The simplest form is the “acknowledged father”, which is a paternity test has been done and he has been proven to be the father.  Another classification is he may be the “presumed father”, the presumed father is established if the child was born while he was married to his wife.   The third classification is where they are called the equitable parent, this can be either a man or woman, they are not biologically their parent but they have a close tight parent-like relationship with the child, could later on have to pay child support.  The last two classifications where paternity is unclear are the “unwedded fathers” and the stepfather.  The unwedded father is the biological father but he is not married to mother and does owe child support.  The stepfather is not legally obligated to pay child support unless he has legally adopted the child/children.

For further information regarding Paternity and more please contact the Orange County Paternity Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Is Mediation the Right Choice?

Posted on May 11, 2012 by Law

Mediation is an affordable method of conflict resolution. This is often an alternative to the traditional divorce process. Mediation is voluntary, and involves a mediator and the parties in the dispute. The mediator is their to guide the parties in reaching an amicable agreement.

The mediators role is not to give advice or to take sides. The importance of a mediator is to ensure the flow of dialogue between both parties.

For further information regarding mediation and more please contact the Orange County Mediators at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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What is a Petitioner and a Respondent in a Divorce?

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Law

If you or someone you know is contemplating divorce it is important to know the legal jargon associated. Divorces can be stressful, expensive and complex. If you need further clarification regarding an aspect of divorce it is helpful to speak with a legal professional regarding your matter.

The first person who files for divorce will be known as the petitioner. The opposing party is known as the respondent. It is important to read the fine print in order to ensure that you are not missing key deadlines.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Costa Mesa Divorce and Child Custody Lawyer at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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What is a Mediator?

Posted on May 9, 2012 by Law

If you decide to resolve your conflicts at mediation you will be assigned a mediator. A mediator is neutral third party who will help facilitate dialogue between the two parties. The mediator is to remain neutral and to not take sides. In addition, the mediator is not supposed to tell the parties what they should do. The decisions are to be left to the two parties in the dispute.

For further information regarding mediation and more please contact the Orange County Divorce Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Family Law Involves Which Kinds of Issues?

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Law

When contemplating divorce it is important to contact a legal professional so they can inform you on your rights. Many times attorneys offer a free initial consultation. In this consultation it is important to ask questions regarding procedure and costs.

Issues that may arise in a family  law matter or divorce can range from; custody, support, division of property and assets, or at times domestic violence restraining order issues.

Alternative methods of conflict resolution are available if you feel this is better alternative. Mediation is an option and is voluntary for both parties. In the mediation session both parties are attempting to reach an amicable agreement.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Irvine Family Law and Divorce Attorneys at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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How can I find Mediation Sessions?

Posted on May 7, 2012 by Law

If you are looking into mediation to resolve a conflict it is important to research local mediators in your county. Often if you are searching for a mediator, if you visit  your county’s website they will have  various links to mediators. It is important to pick several mediators and to call them to see if you would like to work with that particular individual.

Mediation is a newer method of conflict resolution. This method of resolution allows both parties to appear voluntarily in an attempt to reach an amicable agreement. The mediator is a neutral third party that will facilitate the flow of conversation between the parties.

For further information regarding mediation and more please contact the Orange County Family Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Keeping your Children Without Going to Court

Posted on May 4, 2012 by Law

An often unfortunate feature of divorces is a drawn out and expensive child custody dispute. This blog is about how you can avoid going to court while at the same time maintaining your right to have a relationship with the children.

Firstly, it is important to remember that the child’s wellbeing, both physically and mentally, is the most important thing. When addressing your children, you should behave and speak as an adult talking to an adult. Be honest and realistic about where they’ll be staying and what the future holds. Have a neutral person mediate the negotiations and put everything in writing. Also, make sure you have plenty of copies of what was agreed upon.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Southern California Divorce Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation.

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How to Hire a Lawyer When You Have No Money?

Posted on May 3, 2012 by Law

Many individuals feel hopeless or trapped due to their economic situation. It is important to know your options and to know that their are options for those struggling financially.

First, you will want to converse with family members to see if any of them are willing to loan you money to assist you with your divorce. The money can go toward attorney expenses which can greatly assist you with a divorce proceeding. Second, if family is unable to assist you financially, perhaps a close friend will be able to lend you some money? Third, their are some attorneys that work pro bono, meaning they will assist you at no cost. Finally, it is also a good idea when seeking an attorney to ask them during your consultation if they accept payment plans.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Brea Family and Divorce Lawyer at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Divorce Rates and Celebrities

Posted on May 2, 2012 by Law

Blame the increasing divorce rate on celebrities? Celebrities break and get divorced like it’s the cool thing to do.  Marriage doesn’t mean anything anymore when it comes to the rich and famous.  In the year 2011 alone there were 105 celebrity break ups and divorces, and I’m sure there were plenty more. Marriages for celebrities can last anywhere between hours to years. Many times they don’t even get to the wedding and split while engaged. The problem with this is that people look up to celebrities; everyone wants to be one, which may be why the divorce rate has gone up.  The media tells us what’s in and right now divorces and break ups in the celebrity world is huge and not uncommon.  Nobody is shocked anymore when celebrity couples split, so to the rest of the world divorce is a normal and common thing because the media tells us that.  It would be interesting to see if the divorced rate would decrease if more celebrities stuck it out and worked on their marriages instead of running away from them.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Fullerton Divorce and Custody Attorney at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Issues Regarding Child Support

Posted on May 1, 2012 by Law

You would think that after having a child and raising them, that the parent would have no problem supporting their child after a divorce, but they do.  There are so many things that can happen to the custodial parent who does not pay child support, which shows that this happens way more than it should.  Many times it is because the parent believes that their child support is too high, which sometimes it may be, but in that case you should take the matter up in court to see if you can get it lowered.  If you have to pay child support your best choice would be to pay up! There are too many things that can happen to you if you don’t, you can lose your license, your job, your house, you can even be sent to jail.  Not only can u lose everything but your child support will start to build up and instead of paying what you were going to pay monthly, now you are paying much more just to get caught up.  Your child deserves to receive support from their custodial parent, so if you owe it, then pay it.

For further information regarding child support and more please contact the Southern California Divorce Attorneys at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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How You Could End Up With Your Ex’s Debt

Posted on April 30, 2012 by Law

Many people are unaware of the fact that even after divorce, they can end up being responsible for their ex’s debt. Most couples join accounts when getting married. There may be no debt in the joint account when you divorce, but even after getting a divorce, if you don’t take your name off of the account post-divorce, you increase the risk of sharing your ex’s debt. Removing your name from a joint account may be difficult sometimes, and if you haven’t done so, then a debt may be piling up in the account without your knowledge. In addition, if the bank doesn’t have your current address or information, the debt has piled up to a substantial amount before you found out about it.

Although you are divorced and legally have nothing to do with your ex, if your ex resorts to IVA, DRO, or bankruptcy, you may be left responsible for the bill. Thus, make sure you become completely independent from your ex and really take time to resolve any issues relating to your ex that may come back to hurt you.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Family Attorneys for Newport Beach at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

 

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Parenting Class in Orange County; Which Parenting Class Should I Take?

Posted on April 28, 2012 by Law

F.A.C.E.S. stands for Family Assessment, Counseling & Education Services. Founded in 1988, this organization, among other practices, provides parents with a safe place to take parenting classes which are accepted by judges in Orange County. Many times, the court will order a party to enroll in a parenting class by a certain time, for a particular period of time. However, many people are unfamiliar with this practice and do not know exactly where to go to obtain this knowledge.  F.A.C.E.S. offers parenting classes accepted by the Orange County courts. Whether you would like in-person interaction or choose to take an online class, F.A.C.E.S. offers both forms of parental education.  Classes generally take approximately 16 weeks for completion.

While the class topics vary, F.A.C.E.S. parenting classes assist parents going through a divorce or legal separation, single parents seeking to improve their parenting capabilities, parents involved in conflict or high anxiety situations, and parents with little family support. Most simply, if you are a parent, this organization can assist you in developing and polishing your parenting skills.

Another organization that offers parenting classes approved by the Orange County courts is The AJ Novick Group, Inc. This organization offers weekly parenting classes on Thursday nights at 7:00pm.  As a parent, you can begin the classes on any date and continue throughout the weeks you choose to pursue the program. The amount of time the classes last vary and you can take an 8, 10, 12, 22 or 52-week parenting or co-parenting class. The topics include managing stress as a parent, resolving conflicts and anger in the home, assisting with step-parents and step-children and avoiding mistakes in parenting.

Our divorce services should be your last avenue. You should contact a divorce attorney only after you have exhausted all your choices. Our family law firm will be happy to assist if you should ever need our services.

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Divorce: The Child’s Perspective

Posted on April 28, 2012 by Law

Frequently, parents filing for divorce bring their children along to the conference with our attorneys. And although, our law office have always valued the perspective of the children whose parents are ending their marriage, directly meeting those children only solidifies how important the divorce process is for them. Remember, the divorce process is as difficult, if not more difficult, for the children as it is for the parents. There are several tips to promote a child-focused divorce:

 

1)  If your child is having trouble processing the divorce, choose a therapist you trust and encourage your child in working with the therapist.

2) Take time to explain the transition for your children; reassure them that you and your partner’s love for your child is not going to change.

3) Discuss with your children before you make decisions about changes to activities, access, and school of the children.

4) Let go of hatred and vengeance toward your partner. Children can sense any sort of tension.

Attorney Bettina Yanez has a background in psychology; therefore, she understands what a child may be going through. Moreover attorney Yanez is an appointed minor’s counsel attorney for Orange County.

 

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What Smart People Do Post-Divorce

Posted on April 27, 2012 by Law

Divorce is never easy for anyone, not for men and not for women. It takes a great emotional toll on both couples and it doesn’t even matter who initiated the divorce. If you are deciding on getting a divorce, then you are going to have to think about many things and really think things through. However, if you’ve already carried out the divorce and are currently still feeling the depression that usually follows getting a divorce, then here are some tips to being emotionally smart.

It may not be easy to hear, but what’s done is done. For whatever valid reason, you decided to get a divorce and you have. Usually women, more than men, are scared to start a new life without a significant other. They are usually scared of being uncertain of the future. However, smart divorcees commit to being happy again, and put much effort into that commitment. The first step is to stop thinking of yourself as a victim, and start seeing yourself as a survivor. Divorce is tough for everyone, of every age and gender. Stop dwelling in the past and go out and engage in activities that will help you move on. The second step is to accept the economic reality of divorce. You have to come to terms with your post-divorce financial circumstances. You no longer have a spouse to financially work with, and you may be left paying for child support or spousal support. However, you’ve chosen to get a divorce because you believed it was the only way to be happy. Thus, although getting a divorce brought on financial stress, you have to believe this stress is much more bearable than the emotional stress you’ve felt during your marriage. The sooner you come to peace with the fact that you won’t have the same extravagant lifestyle post-divorce, the better.

All in all, trust your decision and the actions you’ve made. Doubting your choice of having gotten a divorce will do you no good and only becomes self-produced stress. So be smart and focus your energy toward building a bright future.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Custody and Divorce Lawyers in Orange County at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Why Do People Get Divorces?

Posted on April 26, 2012 by Law

The reason couples divorce can vary. If you read various articles they often note that divorce has risen to 50%. The reasons this can occur will be a case by case basis. Some parties find that they have both changed and are no longer in love with each other. Furthermore, at times, one of the party changes so drastically and they simply have nothing in common with their spouse.

Additional reasons why marriages sometimes do not work are stress, new job environment, arguments, or sometimes couples find a new significant other.

If you feel that a divorce is in your future it is important to inform and educate yourself on the process. Research can be conducted online, by speaking to a legal professional, or asking friends or family who have gone through the process.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Brea Divorce and Custody Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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What To Do When Surprised With Divorce?

Posted on April 25, 2012 by Law

Divorce does not usually come as a surprise.  There are usually things that lead up to a divorce; like infidelity, social networking with the opposite sex, abuse, therapy did not work, or arguing for prolonged periods of time.  Divorce is initiated by women more times than by men.  Sometimes though it can be a surprise to the other spouse when one wants the divorce.  The other spouse may think everything is going while the other is suffering inside.  Sometimes this is done for their own selfish reasons, if that’s the case don’t dwell on it.  Take care of you and let them figure themselves out, only they can fix their own problems that they are facing.  You will know when the time is right to file for a divorce, just make sure that you are making the best decision for you and your children.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Anaheim Divorce and Custody Attorneys at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Divorce of Thomas and Nancy Beatie

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Law

Thomas Beatie is best known as the first man to get pregnant. He was born a woman but had his breasts removed and is legally a man. Thomas Beatie, a transgender male, kept his female reproductive organs in hopes of being pregnant one day. His first child with wife Nancy was born in 2008.

After nine years of marriage, Thomas and Nancy Beatie are getting a divorce. With three children together, the divorce may consist of custody battle.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Southern California Family Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Seattle Seahawks Chris Clemons divorce proceedings

Posted on April 23, 2012 by Law

Clemons and his ex went through a divorce proceeding one month ago. At this divorce proceeding the court helped them to reach an agreement regarding what the parties owed.  According to TMZ, Clemons agreed to give his ex the Land Rover and approximately $500,000.

Currently, these parties may be headed back to court regarding a dispute over the mansion that Clemons ex claims he gave to her. In addition, there may also be a dispute over attorneys fees.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Orange County Divorce and Spousal Support Lawyers at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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Determining the legal reason for a divorce

Posted on April 20, 2012 by Law

When considering legal reasons for a divorce, there are two kinds of “grounds.” One type is no-fault grounds and the other type is fault grounds.

Fault grounds requires that one party prove there some form of misconduct on the part of the other party. No-fault grounds simply mean that the couple can no longer live tougher and is often called “irreconcilable differences.”

When deciding the various grounds for a divorce, it is important to consider which state you are in because the different kinds of grounds are no available in every state although a no-fault divorce is always an option.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Family and Divorce Lawyers for Newport Beach at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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What are temporary orders for?

Posted on April 19, 2012 by Law

A divorce can seem confusing at many points of the process. During an extensive divorce, you may hear your attorney talk about obtaining temporary or interim orders. Temporary orders are vital during the divorce process because they lay the ground rules while a divorce is pending.

Since divorces often take more than a year, judges may issue temporary orders to temporarily settle custodial and financial arrangements. Temporary orders may handle issues of child custody, spousal support, and responsibility for bills.

Judges don’t usually make temporary orders until a financial affidavit has been filed by both parties. The goal of temporary orders is to cause as little change as possible in the lifestyles of the parties involved until the divorce is settled.
For further information regarding divorces and more please contact the OC Family Law Attorneys at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!
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JLO and Marc Anthony Divorce

Posted on April 18, 2012 by Law

After 7 years of marriage Marc Anthony has filed for divorce from Jennifer Lopez. The couple has cited irreconcilable differences. The two have 4 year old twins together. They both came to a mutual decision that divorce was the best option for them.

In the court paperwork filed by Mr. Anthony he has requested that the court not grant Ms. Lopez spousal support. According to Access Hollywood, this is Ms. Lopez’s third divorce.

For further information regarding divorce and more please contact the Divorce Attorneys for Southern California at 714-665-6600. Call today for your free 60-minute consultation!

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